Lesbian Outbreak? Why?

Are my views one-sided, maybe, but my friends, family members come to me about sexuality questions but the biggest question asked is where did all there gay youths come from? This question has caused a great discussion amongst friends and family.  Now  my perspective is being asked to be shared.

Where are all these gays coming from? I will tell you what i think and you can join in by leaving comments or sharing the topic asked others to leave a comment or share their views.

I think there are three kinds of homosexuals.

1. Born Gay.

The argument with this concept tends to get deep with people with very little insight on being a homosexual; queer, gay, lesbian etc. Religious views are thrown into the mix. I am a born again Christian and a lesbian and i say this to naysayers that say There is no such thing as a gay kids. What do they know about sex. I then say to them; what does sex have to do with it. Being gay is not sex. It is attraction to the same sex, turned off by the opposite sex; this could and I believe does mean mentally too. Just because you are a lesbian; attracted to women does not mean you are lusting or having sex. That goes for men as well. I am talking about that 5 year old boy that loves to hang with the girls because he can relate to them more than the boys. I am not talking about that boy that hates his genitals and wants to have female parts...but that boys who wants to play hopscotch, then double dutch then is sitting in the cafeteria daydreaming about him. he knows from age five that he is different but can't help it. This description is just one type; flamboyant but then there are the rough boys, masculine, doing the guy thing but is daydreaming about boys too. Its just not as noticeable because he is a boy...boy...what heterosexual people would call a real boy.

2.Trauma induced homosexuality

These are the ones that most likely have single parents. Mom is dating and moving them in faster than you can do an online background check and this makes boyfriend number 6 in the last 4 months and all have lived with them. I am not just saying the boyfriends have touched the child but she feels uncomfortable around him because he stares at her body, says inappropriate things to her. Then there are the ones that take it further and violate her. She now wears big baggy clothes hiding her frame; using it at a safety mechanism. She believes see no evil, feel no evil. she is revolted by men because he violated her and no man came to the rescue so her outlook on men period is tainted by her experience and circumstance. On top of that the male image is now vieweddifferently. She constantly sees her mother's boyfriend laying up on the couch when her mother is at work, working two jobs and he is doing nothing. =respect loss. Her mother is complaining that men aint Sh*^! He's trife! He cheated on me...seeing the mother cry for someone they view as useless=revolted by men as a whole and Dad isn't around hasn't been around. Mother male bashing sways them from even wanting to be with a man. If she is a lesbian and is only having sex with same sex partner and they are doing the same there is very little chance of her getting AIDS, no pregnancy...they even think they are saving their virginity, even if they use toys. the concept to them is it isn't real. I also believe it they can get over the trauma they will eventually live a heterosexual life. So basically the second type has been either molested; violated or has lost all respect for men.

Then there is the third type of homosexual which i believe describes the ending of the 2nd type. She has lost respect for men or just wants to spare her heart from aches. There is a myth floating around that women don't hurt you because they understand that we hate the men have been treating us. BLAH BLAH BLAH. Like I said this is a myth! people are people. Some have the need to control and that can lead to ill-treatment, cheating, abuse...you name it. I call this type of gay person:

3. the bandwagon homosexual

They just want to be a part of the rainbow affiliation. Its controversial and they In this case Lesbians seek attention. They want to dibble and dabble in the lifestyle because they think boys break hearts and don't know how to treat them but then again still like boys and when they are bored go back to their boyfriends. They are exploring the pleasure principal on what feels good. Now they ahve that bestie that stays the night all the time and you wonder niavely why she is hanging with this tomboy. Hmmp...believe me they are playing the kissing game, feeling game....

My warning and advice is:

Mothers be careful who you bring around your little girls. Stop thinking he aint like that; she's grown. Read up on urban fiction books so that you can get the feel of different perpsectives on whats out here in terms of reading. Sometimes we pay the price for absent fathers. and they walk way scott free.

Dads stop worrying about your child being gay and focus on which type she is. Stop focusing on your baby momma dating or letting that man play daddy to your baby girl; when you should be worried that he is playing DADDY to your baby girl. Not looking at her like his daughter but her seeing him as the key to her happiness and freedom; because some women don't realize that if Mommy aint happy...they aint happy. Fathers your daughters are doing dumb things because they feel abandoned, unprotected by their true fathers...make a presence automatically showing that her Daddy; her hero is her protector so that fake daddy knows not to violate her in any sense of the word.